Most women try running, find it difficult almost immediately, and decide it simply is not for them. Others trundle on with very little enjoyment.
They download a “Couch to 5K” app, head out with high hopes, and within minutes they’re out of breath, their legs feel like lead, and they wonder how everyone else makes it look so easy. If that sounds familiar, you aren’t failing. You’re just learning a new skill.
I experienced this myself just the other evening. It was my first run since my Malta competition in May, and honestly? It was uncomfortable. It wasn’t at my usual ability and it felt “heavy.” But because I understand how the body works, I knew that would be the case. I didn’t write myself off; I just knew the next run would be better, and the one after that would improve again.
Running and the Pelvic Floor
For many women, the barrier to running isn’t just breathing or tired legs; it’s the pelvic floor. Whether you are a new mum or dealing with pelvic floor issues or prolapse, the fear of “leaking” or discomfort can be enough to make you stop before you’ve even started.
A pelvic floor issue or a prolapse does not mean you have to stop running forever. It simply means you need to build capacity.
If you are starting on your own, start from “ground zero.” The key is to only change one thing at a time. Don’t try to go faster and further in the same week. Experiment with your speed, the length of your run, or your stride length individually to find out where your stress points are. By isolating these variables, you can grow your capacity safely.
If you feel unsure or if things aren’t improving, please get in touch. Working with someone who understands how to manage these pressures while building strength can be the difference between giving up and getting back to the sport you love, or the sport you are trying to love!
Start slower than you think you need to
If you are gasping for air in the first few minutes, you don’t need to push harder – you need to slow down (notice I said SLOW down, NOT stop).
Your easy running pace might feel comically slow at first. That is fine. Running slowly is still running. It gives your heart, lungs, and joints time to adapt to the impact without ending up with shin splints or a reason to quit.
Before you automatically drop into a walk, see if you can reduce your pace to a very gentle jog instead. Learning to hold a steady, easy rhythm helps your brain realise that running doesn’t have to be a battle. The goal is to finish a run thinking, “I could do that again,” rather than needing three days to recover.
Why the “School Sports Day” approach doesn’t work
Think back to your school days, or watch children running in a park. Whatever the distance, they almost always go “max out” from the second they start. Within 100 metres, they have their hands on their knees, gasping for air, saying they can’t do any more.
I saw it all the time during my years as a teacher. As adults, we often do the exact same thing. We try to run at a pace that feels like “proper running” before our body is ready for it.
Running, like life, is about pacing. It’s about resilience and mental control. More often than not, the mind tries to give up long before the body actually needs to.
Alternatives to Couch to 5K
While apps are popular, they aren’t for everyone. For many women, a rigid plan that tells you exactly when to run and walk just doesn’t help. Nor does it necessarily help your running fitness – everyone needs an individual approach.
If you want to try something different, try these:
- Time over Distance: Forget the 5K goal for a moment. Just set a timer for 15 or 20 minutes. Move for that time using a variation of paces – jog for as long as feels manageable, slow down to a “recovery” jog, and only walk if you truly need to. As you become stronger, add some faster paced challenges i.e. 10 seconds fast, sprint to the big tree before resuming a steady jog.
- Work with a PT: Having a coach look at your gait, your strength, and your progression can take the guesswork out of it and keep you injury-free.
- The “Conversation” Test: Run at a pace where you could still speak a short sentence. If you can’t, you’re going too fast for a beginner.
Technical Cues (Keep it Simple)
You don’t need a “perfect” stride to be a runner, but a few things help:
- Footfall: Don’t overthink where your foot lands. Just think: “light and quiet.” Try not to stomp.
- Stride Length: Your stride will feel clunky at first. That’s normal. As you get stronger and your body adjusts, it will naturally feel more comfortable and fluid.
- Hills: On the way up, shorten your steps and slow down. On the way down, stay tall and don’t “brake” too hard with your heels.
A Final Reminder on Recovery
One final thing to remember: you may feel absolutely great when you start running, but this is a gentle reminder that running is still new to your body. To prevent injuries, you need to give yourself time to adjust. Ensure you are giving yourself enough rest time between runs. Ideally, you should support your joints with weight training alongside your running to build the resilience your body needs.
The Bottom Line
You don’t have to be naturally good at running to be a runner. You just need to start at a pace that suits your body, stay mentally tough when it feels new or hard, and give yourself enough time to improve.
Start small. Make it consistent. Build the habit. Then you can build from there.
Need some help getting started?
Whether you are completely new to running, returning after a break, managing pelvic-floor symptoms, or simply want to feel stronger and more confident in your body, we can work out a starting point that feels right for you.
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